Remembrance Day – What Should We Remember?

Remembrance Day, also known as Poppy Day, is a memorial day mostly observed in the UK and some Commonwealth countries. Just in case this is all news to you South Africa is, in fact, a member of the Commonwealth. So what/who are we supposed to remember? The day has been observed since the end of World War 1 to remember the members of the armed forces who died in the line of duty.

We live in a country where we have so much of our “own” recent, and not so recent, history to celebrate, commemorate and remember… people that died fighting, not in war, but fighting for change. I saw a couple of tweets yesterday (11 November) about the relevance of a day remembering people who died in a war that had nothing directly to do with lil ol’ South Africa.

The thing about World War 1 was that it really was a world war. It might not have happened on our doorstep, but i can guarantee you that our doorsteps might look a little different if the Allies hadn’t won.

When World War I broke out in 1914, the South African government chose to join the war on the side of the Allies. General Louis Botha, the then prime minister, faced widespread Afrikaner opposition to fighting alongside Great Britain so soon after the Anglo Boer War and had to put down a revolt by some of the more militant elements before he could send an force of 67,000 troops to invade German South-West Africa (now Namibia). (wiki)

In total, more than 146,000 whites, 83,000 blacks and 2,500 Coloureds and Asians served in South African military units during the war, including 43,000 in German South-West Africa and 30,000 on the Western Front. An estimated 3,000 South Africans also joined the Royal Flying Corps. (wiki)

What kills me is this: the total South African casualties during the war was about 18,600 with over 12,452 killed – more than 4,600 in the European theater alone.

Remembrance Day went by in South Africa with hardly a nod to those that died. So here i am, for what it’s worth, remembering them. They were a generation that had courage and bravery in excess, they went and fought a war in another country with the knowledge that they might never come back and enjoy the life they were fighting for. World War 1 has almost completely dropped out of living memory, as far as i know, the last living veteran from World War 1 died in February of this year.

If another World War broke out, and the call came for all able-bodied men & women to step forward and sign up to fight, would we? Scores of 18 – 25 year olds jumped on a boat to go and fight to protect their families and homes. Something tells me that the response would be less than overwhelming. Sacrifice isn’t something that our generation knows much of.

Justin Bieber was the top trend on Twitter on Remembrance Day. 

Lest we forget.

The Problem With Bucket Lists

NOTE: I apologize for the nonsensical writing order, it might not make sense, but i need to get it out. Also, if you could keep abuse to a minimum, that’d be great. I’m real, there’s a human behind these words and i need you to see that and just let me be.

I have a bucket list of the 5 music makers that i would love to see most in concert, in no particular order: Taylor Swift, Incubus, Snow Patrol, Bon Iver & Linkin Park. Snow Patrol i was lucky enough to see at one of the most beautiful venues in Somerset West when we still had the MyCokeFest, it was epic and lived up to every expectation.

I’ve been more than just a fan of Linkin Park since they released Hybrid Theory in 2000. Meteora then went on to be probably the most listened to album i have ever had… playing the soundtrack to my teenage angsty phase. I even followed their side projects, i supported Fort Minor and Dead By Sunrise with a fervency reserved for the mentally unstable. I’ve lived through more false announcements of Linkin Park coming to SA than i care to remember. I didn’t even believe that they were really really really coming until i had those tickets in my hand.

Things are tough for me at the moment, it’s no secret what with Twitter and all. If you follow me, you might notice an out of character tweet here and there… but i have a lot going on. I keep up appearances as much as i can, and regardless of what it might look like on the outisde, i’m barely scraping through. I don’t think i need to try and hide it more than i have already. Everyone goes through periods where it’s hard to pick themselves up and carry on, but it’s easy to forget that you’re not actually alone in whatever you’re going through.

We passed under the scaffolding, i paused in front of the DJ to see if i could recognize him. It was so so windy and there was dust flying everywhere, so i took my beanie and shielded my eyes and carried on walking. I picked up a drink from a promo girl, so did Joe. Mixi, who was with us, realized she walked past without one and so she ran back to where the scaffolding was, got a drink, and came back while we waited. We turned around, and heard a crash and saw the dust cloud. I saw the scaffolding and then i heard people screaming. Joe ran. I was in shock. I ran 2 seconds later behind him throwing down the drinks in my hand. I ran past people standing dumbfounded, people taking photos. I saw the blood on the inside of the scaffolding. I looked for Joe, and couldn’t find him. I panicked. I was worried he would put himself in harms way to help someone else – he would. I looked around the corner – more people on the floor, more blood. A girl lying on the stage. I felt helpless. I had St Johns ambulance training, but how was i supposed to help with people that had been crushed? Rob Forbes went on the mic and asked for people who knew CPR… a few rushed forward. Why would they need CPR? I started to feel sick. I couldn’t watch people die. I knew it was serious. I looked at the structure and it’s thick metal poles and knew that people weren’t going to be ok. The paramedics arrived in record time. we’d walked past them not 5min earlier.

I hate myself for not doing more. I know there’s nothing i could have done to physically help anyone, the paramedics were there. But maybe that nameless girl who died needed someone to hold her hand? Or to pray for her? Or just to hold her.

2012 saw me lose an Uncle and a friend, both deaths hit me hard. I still cry about my friend when i remember him and his rollerblades and sparkly scarf. My Uncle was so kind and gentle and loved flying kites at outdoor parties. I want you to know them, just like i feel like we should know the girl who passed away at the concert. She was a Linkin Park fan, like me, she was just 1 minute later. 1 minute. I could have lost the love of my life or my best friend. Someone lost their daughter yesterday. I can’t stop thinking about her family and friends.

You might call me indulgent or dramatic, but the truth is that i am just so fucking sensitive to everything right now. I always have been, i probably always will be. It means that i am insanely sympathetic/empathetic and if you talk to me about something that has happened to you, you can bet that i’m feeling it right along side you too. I couldn’t just enjoy the concert after what had happened. I couldn’t switch off. I was watching a band i had waited over 12 years for… and i just couldn’t stop seeing the people lying on the ground.

I cried until 4:00am this morning. I had to put a movie on to try and distract myself. It didn’t work. I eventually fell asleep with nightmares of people getting stuck in things and crushed. I didn’t lose anyone yesterday, but i feel like i did. As i’m writing this, i can’t stop crying for long enough to put some make up so that i can carry on with my day. The rest of the world doesn’t stop – life never stops. Sometimes i wish it would.

I can’t have any more of this 2012. I’m ready for you to end.

Blogger Brew Challenge III

Let it be known that i am possibly the biggest procrastinator i know. In fact, i know that i’m the probably ranked in the Top 10 Procrastinators Of All Time list. My mom was hoping that i would eventually grow out of it – but it turns out it isn’t all my fault. If you follow me on Twitter, or have read some of my personal blogs, you might have seen me mention that i have ADHD. It seems that it’s “cool” to have ADHD these days – much like being a DJ or having an internet radio show…. but my ADHD is legit. And i most definitely have not outgrown it.

Making beer is not a task you can’t be lackadaisical about…. it takes immense amounts of concentration and all round pedantic-ness. You also have to follow a very specific timeline, almost to the hour. I, unfortunately, have not. I get distracted and find other things i should or shouldn’t be doing. In my defense, i have had a manic few weeks – with trips to JHB and new shows and outside broadcasts and the washing machine breaking. Yes, the broken washing machine is going to take some of the blame.

As a result i am THE LAST blogger, that is taking part in this challenge, to be bottling my beer :/ I should have bottled it over the weekend, but… you know… procrastination, life, whatever. I will now be bottling it tomorrow evening sometime (read: Thursday morning or Friday or whenever).

Because all of my competitors brews are done and bottled (and 1 spilled – I’m looking at you Kamini), i can now reveal some of what i added to my beer in an attempt to make it taste like unicorn pee, but more than likely fucked it up. I soaked some Morello Cherries and Strawberries in vodka for a week and a bit and then added the boozey berries to the fermenter, as well as a few cups of honey. I did this after the “looks like tea, tastes like vomit” episode a few weeks ago.

I also have one last trick up my sleeve that might just set me apart from the rest before i bottle my beer… but we shall see. I’m not sure if it’s me being negative or just realistic, but i’m not holding out much hope to win. I think wine lady Cathy Marston, and professional drinker Dylan Moore might just be the two to keep your eye on.

 

MISSING! Help Find This Bunny!

Well, technically it isn’t missing… but we really do need to find a rabbit like this one. Twitter dude, @6000, has a friend whose son is going in for some pretty serious radiation therapy. After which this bunny will have to be incinerated. They are desperately trying to find another one like it. ASAP.

This is a super traumatic experience for anybody to go through, and if you’ve ever had a family member or a friend go through radiation therapy – you know how hectic it can be. This little guy is going to be stuck in quarantine ALL ALONE for 3 days… jeez, i couldn’t even go to the kitchen alone when i was a kiddie. This little bunny will be the only companion he’ll have while he’s going through the procedure & unfortunately the bunny will have to go bye-bye afterwards :/

This is what the dad had to say on Facebook:

Sorry to post this again but apparently it isn’t sharing….

Nic is going for his Radiated Iodine therapy very soon and will be in isolation for up to 3 days , after which his PJ’s and bedding will be incinerated. He will feel better with Rabbit (pictured) but unfortunately he will be incinerated too! We are desperately trying to find the same rabbit to act as a body double! He was bought at Woolies about 10 years ago. If anybody has one like this , I will happily buy it from you! please let me know…..we know Nic is always brave with his team mate!

I believe that the internet is more than just sarcastic tweets, porn and pics of funny cats… we’re a community, especially here in SA… so please SHARE, RT, Copy and paste the pic on your Facebook/Twitter/wherever… Someone, somewhere has to have one that they’re willing to sell. Let me know if you find one!

UPDATE

Thank you so much for all the shares/retweets/posts over the past few days, we found not one, not two, but 4 rabbits for Nic! This proves that social media is more than just a form of communication between strangers, it’s a community. We’re also a pretty great bunch here in South Africa and we seem to understand that there are actual humans behind those profile pictures on our computer screens. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Here is Nic:

More info and constant updates on: 6000.co.za

 

Blogger Brew Challenge

A VERY PERSONAL ACCOUNT OF MY CONVERSION TO BEER-LOVERISM:

I can’t believe it, but it’s almost time for the Cape Town Festival Of Beer again! Since the Festival started, i’ve only missed 1 year, the very first, in 2009. It’s been great watching it grow year after year, and this year i know it’s going to be even more amazinger than the last.

I do have to confess something though – i don’t really count myself as a beer fan. In fact, not more than 2 years ago i honestly hated beer. Really really hated it. Not only did it taste like how i would imagine kitten pee would taste, it’s alcohol content to carb ratio was way off. Something changed in 2010 though… i went to the CTFOB with a colleague and he convinced me to have a sip of his Black Label Draught. It. Was. Delicious. I couldn’t believe it. I went and bought myself one, and finished it off in record time.

Now, my conversion to Beer-Loverism wasn’t instant, nor was it all encompassing. I tried to open myself up to other beers, and was never able to find another beer that i liked as much as that Black Label Draught. In fact, i still found the majority to be pretty gross. Then something even more surprising happened – i started dating a Yorkshireman who almost exclusively drinks beer, and a lot of it. The first time he ordered a Guinness, i looked at it’s blackness and thick white head, and knew that i would probably make a fool of myself if i tried it out… but i did. AND IT WAS AMAZING! I felt like my Irish Grandfather looking down on me from Purgatory, and nodding in approval, while my clan ancestors proudly shouted out war cries! I swear i heard a chorus of fiddles ring out… I saw a leprechaun… It was a religious experience.

Since then, i’ve tried even more beers. Some i love, some i hate… but i’m willing to try almost anything.

So when Dan Nash asked if i would be interested in taking part in the Bloggers Brew Challenge, i literally jumped and squealed! What is it? Well, i’m competing against 9 other bloggers/media people to see who can make the best homebrew. We were all given kits and as a result i currently have 23L of beer fermenting next to my bed.

I am, however, rather useless at stuff… so you can imagine that this process didn’t go down very smoothly. Take a look here: Blogger Brew Challenge II

Double Trouble

For those of you that don’t know, i’m a radio presenter on Good Hope FM and i can now officially tell the world that i’m starting 2 new shows as of this weekend, one of which is Nightfunk with DJ Mixi!

I leave the Weekend Breakfast family to join one of my all time bestest friends. Not many people honestly LOVE what they do, and even fewer get to work with their closest friends. I’m lucky like that ;)

I join DJ Mixi every Friday night between 10pm-2am on Nightfunk… our mission is to bring some of the hottest dance music to you and your ears. Mixi and i have very different likes and dislikes; drinks, music and even men, which is what makes this show so special. No matter what genre of partooza moozic gets you in the mood, we’ve got it covered! Mixi has always leaned a little towards good solid house and tribal beats, and she loves a good RnB tune… whereas, in terms of dance music, i lean more towards the Electro, Dubstep, Drum n Bass vibes… However, we both agree that Trance music is some SICK SHIT! The good kind ;)

 

If you’re a regular Nightfunk listener, you’ll notice a couple of changes. There will be an International DJ featured every Friday, guys like; Avicii, Swedish House Mafia, Armin van Buuren, Calvin Harris and Afrojack. The Dance Music Chart is also a new addition to the show… between 10pm-11pm we’ll be counting down some of the best dance music, across all genres, from across the globe :)

So, do me a solid, tune in this Friday and let us know what you think. If you aren’t in the most beautiful city in the world (Cape Town), then you can audiostream here: www.goodhopefm.co.za :}

My Oom Se Motor…

I tweeted the lyrics to this song last week Thursday and was overwhelmed by how many people replied with the rest of the lyrics and also enjoyed the nostalgia of it all. This song was one of my favourites as a kid (yeah, i didn’t get out much)… and it still holds a special place in my heart. I would be lying if i said that i didn’t get a lump in my throat every time i hear this song. I had a Oom who lived on a farm and i feel like i get transported back to Uniondale every time i hear it…

*SPOILER ALERT* Her Oom dies at the end of the song?! After all his troubles with the bank and the drought! So typical of Afrikaans literature, it’s always so bladdy morbid.

Seeing as my blog is basically just a collection of stuff i find cool or weird, i thought it should have a permanent place here.

Laurika Rauch - Stuur Groete Aan Mannetjies Roux

I swear, nostalgia will be the death of me.

My Soul And Twinkle Toes

My boy-human has a very talented younger brother who lives in London and goes to a performing arts college… he can sing, dance, act and he’s adorable to boot! He put together an audition video for an upcoming musical, “Backstep”.

When i was younger, i was never into team sports, i was always too much in my own world to worry about watching other people and what they were doing with a ball. Instead, i did ballet and gymnastics… having hypermobility in most of my joints, it came pretty easily. I gave up after a few years in High School to focus on music, and also because i found it almost impossible to maintain the body needed to become a successful dancer… and i got way too tall. You don’t find many ballet dancers, or female dancers in general, that are 2cm shy of 6ft :/ I still find myself watching videos on youtube of people dancing and wondering where i would be now if i had taken it a little more seriously. Le sigh.

Edward Crann is not only blessed with talent in heaps, he also works damn hard at it, and it pays off. I have a feeling that we’re watching the rise of a star :) Watch the video, click like, share it with your friends… Ta!

Get Your Own Twitter Character Infographic

Who doesn’t like a good infographic? They’re informative and they’re graphic! Anyway, this popped up in my Facebook feed from Spillly who had recently created his own infographic using Visual.ly. You can go solo, like Spillly and i did… or you can even pit yourself against another Twitter user to see how you compare.

I find this stuff pretty interesting… Twitter is, after all, an extension of our personalities and it’s interesting to see how people translate who they are into a digital environment.

According to the infographic, my tweeting behaviour is like that of a gamer? Hmmmm… does that mean i’m pale, hardly go outdoors, still live with my mom and spend hours on Reddit? Holy SHIT! These people are good O_o

Spillly also outshines me a little and makes me feel kinda like a miserable bitch… apparently i’m not very “chatty” or “enthusiastic” when it comes to interacting with my followers.

Get your own here: http://visual.ly/twitter